Character study

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society was delicious reading.

Last week, while my body was on a barrier island in North Carolina, my spirit was living in 1946, in the coastal town of St. Peter Port, in the Channel Islands, between France and England.  Fate takes the main character, a writer, to Guernsey, where she chronicles the stories of its people, who had survived—some not—the German Occupation of their island during World War II. 

It’s hard for me to shake a book.  Same thing with movies.  I linger in the setting for a bit, enjoying the company of the characters as if they were my closest friends, even adopting their speaking styles.  After reading the book, it was hard to resist the tendency to use “fancy” as a verb and utter words such as “twaddle” that don’t otherwise roll off my pedestrian American tongue.  I loved every page of this book and beg you to pick up a copy and dive in.

While on the Outer Banks I also enjoyed early morning coffee at the ocean’s edge and an occasional champagne at sunset.  I ate as much fresh seafood and key lime pie as humanly possible.

Also on this trip, my husband and I undertook a social experiment.  When eating out, instead of sitting at a table, we pledged to eat at the bar of each restaurant we visited, and get to know the people on either side of us.  Sometimes we sat long enough to get to know several rounds of patrons.

Our dining practice did indeed spur some fascinating conversations. 

At one place, we happened to sit next to a man we had met the previous summer—a retired high school basketball coach from the county where I grew up.  We met a sober-looking woman who ordered a cocktail made of six different liquors.  Another night we were drawn into giggling group of women in their sixties, away for a girls’ weekend. 

At Awful Arthur’s Oyster Bar, I struck up a conversation with a woman who had ridden to North Carolina on a motorcycle from Middle Tennessee.  I was familiar with Middle Tennessee because I have two very smart, clever and well-read friends from there.

This woman asked me where I was from.  I replied that I was from the Washington, D.C., area. 

She raised her eyebrows.  “Washington, D.C.?  Ain’t that where the president lives?”

Guernsey 1946 or Kill Devil Hills 2010, over potato peel pie or key lime, it doesn’t matter.  Interesting characters are everywhere if you just pull up a stool and ask, “where y’all from?”

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Words of wisdom for Saturday

Word Nymph is unplugged this week.  She leaves you with this quote: 

“Fatherhood is pretending the present you love most is soap-on-a-rope.”

     — Bill Cosby

Happy Father’s Day.  See you Monday.

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Words of wisdom for Friday

Word Nymph is unplugged this week.  She leaves you with this quote: 

“Tell me I’m clever, Tell me I’m kind, Tell me I’m talented, Tell me I’m cute, Tell me I’m sensitive, graceful and wise, Tell me I’m perfect – But tell me the truth.”

     — Shel Silverstein

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Words of wisdom for Thursday

Word Nymph is unplugged this week.  She leaves you with this quote: 

“I am so clever that sometimes I don’t understand a single word of what I am saying.”

     — Oscar Wilde

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Words of wisdom for Wednesday

Word Nymph is unplugged this week.  She leaves you with this quote: 

“I haven’t trusted polls since I read that 62 percent of women had affairs during their lunch hour.  I’ve never met a woman in my life who would give up lunch for sex.”

      — Erma Bombeck

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Words of wisdom for Tuesday

Word Nymph is unplugged this week.  She leaves you with this quote: 

“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out.”

     — Art Linkletter  

This quote is also attributed to John Wooden.  I don’t care who said it;  I just like it.  By the way, did you know this sentence is known as a chiasmus?  I didn’t.  I recently learned that a chiasmus is a verbal pattern in which the second half of an expression is balanced against the first with the parts reversed.  — W.N.

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Words of wisdom for Monday

Word Nymph is unplugged this week.  She leaves you with this quote: 

“Be careful about reading health books.  You may die of a misprint.”
     — Mark Twain

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Slipping away

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Even Word Nymphs need an extended rest now and then.

This one is running off to a secluded cottage for seven days without Internet, while her permanent home is guarded by two Sumo wrestlers, an Army Ranger and Mr T.

In recent times, “sabbatical” has come to mean any extended absence in the career of an individual in order to achieve something–in this case, enjoying a little sun without burning, perfecting her Skee-Ball game, beating her husband at 500 Rummy, filling up on seafood, catching up on sleep and reading The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society.

Thanks to readers who sent in their favorite summer songs, her iPod is locked and loaded for a week of sunset-gazing on an amazing ocean-front deck.

While away, the Word Nymph will be dreaming up all kinds of new wordish topics for her online forum.  She’ll also be leaving behind for her readers a favorite quote each day.  So, if you don’t subscribe, check in periodically and enjoy the words of some of her favorite writers.

If you’d like to suggest topics for future discussion, by all means, send them as Comments.

Thanks for reading.  See you on June 21st.

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It’s time

This week I have been spending a fair amount of time in the air. 

I don’t travel as often as George Clooney in Up in the Air but, like George’s character, I am robotic in my process.  I go through security like a zombie—that’s the best way to do it, actually—and seldom get rattled.  I often rent cars on the other end and that too has become rhythmic.

I don’t even travel as often as many of my colleagues.  I have one client who flies out of Philly so often she’s been offered the airport employees’ discount at Auntie Anne’s.

Erma Bombeck wrote a popular book entitled, When You Look Like Your Passport Photo, It’s Time to Go Home.

While, sadly, I haven’t used my passport in quite some time, Erma’s book title swooshes through my head during some of my busiest domestic travel weeks.  In fact, during time spent recently in a boarding area (no, not that time), I drew up a list of it’s-time-to-go-home triggers.

It’s time to go home when:

  • you check the Departures monitor for your gate and have to look at your boarding pass to remember where you are going
  • you and the US Airways flight attendants recognize each other–and smile fondly
  • you use your travel toiletries more than the ones at home
  • you sit down in a restaurant and look for the seat belt
  • you achieve frequent shopper status at Taxco Sterling and HMS Newsstand (and Auntie Anne’s).  The woman at the Taxco counter at National Airport knows which pieces I already have.
  • you spot the same set of identically dressed adult twins twice (not yet, but it’s bound to happen!)

How about you?  When is it time for you to go home?

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Helen wheels

I have followed the career of the legendary veteran reporter Helen Thomas for many years and have learned from the examples she has set–up to and including the recent mega-blunder that abruptly ended her historic career.

By example, Helen Thomas taught me that women with intelligence, ambition and guts can make groundbreaking advances in male-dominated fields.

She showed me that love and passion for one’s work, coupled with serious pursuit of excellence, engender job satisfaction and career sustainability.

She showed me that showing up every day, even when one is sick, tired or facing treacherous weather, counts for something.

She showed me that having the courage to ask hard questions helps keep people honest.

She showed me that a person can work productively and happily well into her eighties.

Or maybe not.

In her 2006 book, Watchdogs of Democracy?: The Waning Washington Press Corps and How It Has Failed the Public, she observed that the news media are steadily losing their objectivity.  The once-bright line between news and commentary is fading, she suggested.

It is no secret that Helen, too, has let more of her personal views spill into her fact-finding and reporting.  Like those she criticizes, she has stepped boldly over that once-bright line.

This week, by example, she showed me something I already knew:  think before you speak or you could regret it for the rest of your life.  Comments made within earshot of anyone can be your demise.  Always behave as though your comments are within someone’s earshot–especially if they are tasteless and offensive.  Better yet, keep them to yourself.

This week, Helen made a horrific comment about Israeli Jews living in Palestine that cost her the precious remainder of her career, as well as a reputation that was 89 years in the making.

I have long looked up to Helen Thomas for reasons too many to list.  I have met her several times and a year or so ago, had occasion to spend time one on one.   My limited personal experience is that she is warm, gracious and humble.  But to me, what has always stood out about Helen is how much she loves her work.

I will always remember watching an interview in which she was asked how much longer she would work before retiring.  I was inspired by her reply, “I will die with my boots on.”

I always thought she’d go abruptly, perhaps right there in the White House Press  Briefing Room, notebook and pen clutched in her red-fingernailed hands.  A couple of years ago, she returned to work after a serious and extended illness and kept plugging away. 

In retrospect, maybe returning to work was a mistake.  As people get older, their cognitive wires get crossed, they lose their inhibitions and they can behave in shocking and inappropriate ways.

I am sorry Helen didn’t get to die with her boots on.

Perhaps she should have slipped off the boots, had one heck of a party and enjoyed a well-deserved retirement from a long and distinguished career, before it was too late.  Before this is what she would be remembered for.

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