Anger management

As I was ranting yesterday about the careless Cadillac driver who hit my car and then lied about it, I realized I used a phrase that I didn’t fully understand.

I said that something stuck in my craw. I made a mental note to investigate the origin of the phrase and then never got back to it. I was so steaming mad at myself for being so steaming mad.

I don’t want to be an angry blogger. So I packaged up all the anger I’ve expressed on this blog and filed it under a new Category called “Rants and Raves.” This way, maybe my toxic tantrums can stay tucked tightly away where they can’t infect the other posts.

Eventually I looked up “stick in one’s craw” and confirmed that it meant what I thought: to cause one to feel abiding discontent and resentment.

One source said the phrase comes from something you can’t swallow, based on the literal meaning of craw, which refers to the throat of a bird.

Another source claims “sticks in my craw” is incorrect. She said, “The correct phrase is ‘sticks in my crow.’ ‘Craw’ is a modern corruption of the word ‘crow,’ as in the frequent use of ‘craw’ as verb to describe the sound of crows.” She cited the Oxford English Dictionary.

A blog called Phrase Finder also likened the phrase to having difficulty swallowing something, but elaborated. Citing the Encyclopedia of Word and Phrase Origins by Robert Hendrickson, the site explained that “The craw is the crop or preliminary stomach of a fowl, where food is predigested. Hunters centuries ago noticed that some birds swallowed bits of stone that were too large to pass through the craw and into the digestive tract. These stones, unlike the sand and pebbles needed by birds to help grind food in the pouch, literally stuck in the craw, couldn’t go down any farther. This oddity became part of the language of hunters and the phrase was soon used figuratively.” 

So many blogs, so many perspectives on one issue.

Then of course, the Urban Dictionary contained an entry or two that aren’t suitable for polite company.

I got to thinking of other sayings that express anger. For example, “This really steams my clams.” “That really burns my biscuits.” “This really grinds my gears.”

Do you have any good ones? Once I rant a good litany, we can move on. I can move on.

Tomorrow I’ll clear my craw and be so cheerful you won’t even recognize me.


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5 responses to “Anger management

  1. Makes you wonder about the origin of the one use the most…”This pisses me off”, or shortened to, “I’m really pissed.”

  2. Sheree

    I always thought “stuck in my craw” referred to the claw of a crawfish. We do learn something new everyday we read your blog! And I am probably showing my redneck side 🙂

  3. Mom

    My mother explained it to me many years ago by showing me “the craw” of a chicken she’d just killed and dressed. There were stones in it, and she said there was a reason for that: it helps to grind up food (by abrasion, I guess) so it can be digested. Forget “crow” — I’d take my mother’s word over some dumb dictionary.

  4. William Greene

    I sense a tad of ‘simmering discontent’ on your part. I personally cannot ‘simmer’. Perhaps it might help if you use phraseology like mine: “He won’t pay? I’ll blow his house up!!”
    I never do anything, but somehow my psyche feels relieved.

  5. Take if from a judge in the 2010 Grundy Co., Tennessee 4-H red Rhode Island laying hen contest – Mom is right!

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